For those of you over the last couple days that have come and gone liked, unliked then liked again, unlike those few and yeah 400 is a few, have been around for the last couple years. I want you to know you don't need to be sending me pm's about why you hate me, I already know why. If you had been around the site from its beginning you would know this place is not going to be for everyone, in fact it's not for most. I'm a business owner who loves Bronco Football it's here for me to share and learn from likeminded individuals i.e. Die hard Bronco fans, that's why the place goes silent from time to time because you know I work many 120 hour weeks 7 days a week.
For all those who are messaging me personally in your show of support thank you and I understand both your support and your silence because of group think and pack mentality has been taking over our society for a while now so people are afraid to speak their mind. Given as I am one who has never given a rats arse to what others think of me other than the Lord in Heaven and clearly understand this is the internet, I will say those that have a problem seem to be the same 4 or 5 people all from the same click if that’s what they call it today and while they fire bomb my messages both personal and here the vast majority of folks as individuals in support outnumber the others 10 fold they just sent one not 20 pm's . So don't like, but know this I will always allow a free flow of ideas and never censor anyone agree or disagree. Who knows maybe you might be right….
Now some pointers if you truly want to persuade someone to the validity of your views here's some does and don'ts.
1. Don't start you're argument with "you idiot" or "you're just a bandwagon fan" Calling others insulting names makes me laugh as it is so juvenile I automatically know the person on the other end has a very low iq and will be easily impacted with a few short sweat follow-ups. Nothing like making someone who attempts to insult you waste a few hours of their life ranting about you. It's a source of pleasure for me by the way, knowing I can so easily impact others’ lives..
2.Do not repeat the same remark over and over, it's like banging your head into the wall continuing to do so might lead to brain damage.
3.Lastly understand using a grammar arguments only says one thing about your argument, you don't have one or you are not intelligent enough to communicated one.
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Now for some do's
1.Ask some one why they feel the way they do ,surely if your goal is to persuade them you must find out the pillar on which they beliefs hinge
2. find common ground as someone is more willing to hear your points if they believe you share a mutual interested.
3.Try to understand the others point of view so that you may discuss in a sincere way why you believe they are wrong or agree to disagree.
None of us are perfect more because we are emotional beings the trick is to control your emotions and just try to have fun when you can and when times are trying like now, try to be more understanding and willing to say what is bothering you.
Inclosing unfortunately business requires that even after a death in the family the real world goes on and because of that reality over these next very important days for Bronco Nation I’m going to be over whelmed with in the field activities and business meetings so unlike these last couple days I will not have the time to report on nor comment on what are sure to be outstanding events in the history of Boise State. I would like however to offer those who are interested an opportunity to post on https://www.facebook.com/theblueturf fb page as an adim. If you are interested in either writing for the site or update the fb page please feel free to email me at [email protected]
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